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When I think of single life (single and childless), I often think of the episode of Sex and the City when Carrie says something like when you’re single no one takes time to acknowledge or notice you unless its your birthday. Like there’s no special day for you besides your birthday but everyone has one. So, in all honesty there’s no day for you. There’s no Mother’s day, no wedding anniversary, no dating anniversary, nothing. It’s like you don’t matter.
For some reason people think when you’re single you can do whatever you want and you have all this time. When in reality you’re responsible for yourself and everything that goes with you. You have to take care of all the bills. When you’re sick, you take care of yourself. If you miss work, you don’t get paid and no one else is there to pick up the slack.
People usually forget about you. Friends with kids don’t include you in activities. They often forget you exist. They think their time is more valuable because they have kids. They use their kids as excuses when they suck.
If you’re single with kids, atleast you know your kid(s) have grandparents and their father. Even if you’re not together you still have those people in your life. You have programs designed for you because you matter.
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